Hello Readers,

Sorry i went an almost year long hiatus, im sure some of you have forgotten me but thats okay.

For the past year, a lot has happened. I have changed soo much as a person, ive changed for better and for worse. I have grown up but also taken a few steps backward and for this i need more change.

For once, i need to write more. It just helps to keep me in sync with my life, balanced, in a way centered.  I think i  will just slowly tell you what happened, but its been a roller coaster, emotionally, mentally, spiritually.

I love you and cant wait to see what this new year has in store for us.




Consent: Not actually that complicated

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A short one today as my life is currently very complicated and conspiring against my preference to spend all of my days working out what to blog. But do you know what isn’t complicated?


It’s been much discussed recently; what with college campuses bringing in Affirmative Consent rules, and with the film of the book that managed to make lack of consent look sexy raking it in at the box office. You may not know this, but in the UK we more or less have something similar to ‘affirmative consent’ already. It’s how Ched Evans was convicted while his co-defendant was not – and is along the lines of whether the defendant had a reasonable belief that the alleged victim consented. From the court documents it appears that while the jury felt that it was reasonable to believe that the victim had consented to intercourse with the co-defendant, it…

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I will sing

I will sing him a song

A last farewell

A goodbye

How do you say bye

To the man that means so much?

This is for my father.

I will sing him a song

A last farewell.

Rest in Peace


Certified Son of God


It is in you I find life
It is in you I lose it
The world around is flooding in
The voices in my head won’t let me sleep
They tell me to just give up and simply give in
But your word tells me “don’t be dismayed”
Your word says “let it all go”
And simply trust You
For it is in you I find peace
And It is in you I find Hope
For all I lost, I gained even more
Yes even more abundantly
For nought is truly lost
You are in everything
You are everything
It is in you I find life
It is in you I lose it
Yes I gave all up
But I gained

Luke 17:33 ASV

Whosoever shall seek to gain his life shall lose it: but whosoever shall lose his life shall preserve it.

I Remain
Ochuko A. Akpomudjere

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